Move past your past.
Online therapy for women navigating trauma, eating disorders, and borderline personality disorder.
It’s not that you haven’t tried — it’s that what you’ve tried hasn’t given you the lasting relief you deserve.
You’ve worked so hard to feel better, but the strategies you’ve used don’t stick for long. That doesn’t mean you’re broken — it means you need a different kind of support, one that gets to the root of what’s keeping you stuck.
Trauma & Attachment Wounds
Trauma has a way of sticking with you, even when you wish it wouldn’t. it shows up in your reactions, your relationships, and the way you see yourself. Maybe you’re constantly on edge, quick to feel shame, or stuck in patterns you swore you’d never repeat. Even if life looks “fine” on the outside, your nervous system might still be bracing for something to go wrong. That’s exhausting.
As an Evergreen Certified DBT therapist with advanced training in Schema Therapy, I use a structured, evidence-based approach while still keeping therapy real and human. We’ll build concrete skills to regulate emotions and tolerate distress, and we’ll also look deeper at the core beliefs — the schemas — that formed early and still quietly shape your choices. The goal isn’t to erase your past. It’s to help it stop controlling your present.
Eating Disorders & Body Image
Food and your body shouldn’t feel like a constant battle, but for many people, it does. You might restrict, binge, overexercise, or feel guilty every time you eat. Even on the “good” days, the mental fight is still there: the calorie counting, the body checking, the constant voice saying you’re not enough. The perfectionism and self-criticism never really turn off. It’s isolating, exhausting, and it chips away at your confidence.
And it’s important to say this clearly: it’s not as simple as “just eat more,” “just eat less,” or “just stop.” Eating disorder behaviors don’t exist in a vacuum. They’re often coping strategies for deeper emotions such as shame, fear, control, worth, abandonment, anxiety. Until those underlying drivers are addressed, the behaviors tend to resurface in some form.
In our work together, I integrate DBT to help manage urges and emotional intensity, Schema Therapy to uncover the deeper beliefs about identity and worth fueling the cycle, and advanced training in RO-DBT to address overcontrol, rigidity, and perfectionism. We’re not just trying to eliminate symptoms. We’re building flexibility, emotional awareness, and a more compassionate, stable relationship with yourself.
Borderline Personality Disorder & Emotion Dysregulation
You might feel “too much” one moment and “not enough” the next. Maybe you crave closeness but also fear abandonment, or you find yourself in the same painful relationship cycles again and again. Your emotions might feel like they go from 0 to 100 in seconds, last longer than those around you, or seemingly hit out of nowhere, leaving you drained, ashamed, or out of control.
As an Evergreen Certified DBT therapist, I can help you understand why this is happening to you and offer skills-based treatment specifically designed for emotion dysregulation and borderline personality disorder. We focus on building stability, learning how to ride out emotional waves, reduce impulsive behaviors, communicate more effectively, and strengthen your sense of identity. When deeper beliefs like defectiveness or abandonment are fueling the cycle, we work on those through Schema Therapy.
My style blends structure with honest conversation. I’m warm, direct, and not afraid to challenge the patterns that go deep, because you deserve more than just coping. You deserve real change.
Sound like you?
Wishing you can stop believing deeply negative thoughts about yourself - or wanting to find out who you actually are.
Tired of thinking about food, restricting, or overexercising — and still never feeling “enough”
Ready to break the cycle of intense emotions, self-criticism, and toxic relationships.
Done doubting your own memories because “nothing that bad happened” because it did.
Here’s what we’ll do together
Therapy with me is more than just talking. I’ll listen closely, but I’ll also help you notice patterns and find new ways to cope.
My style is warm, authentic, and collaborative. I’ll listen closely to what you’re going through, and I’ll also help you notice patterns and explore new ways of coping. Together, we’ll work on building skills that fit your life, so you can feel more grounded and confident day-to-day.
I recommend meeting weekly or twice weekly at first so you have consistency and momentum, though we’ll adjust as your needs evolve.
Between sessions, I may offer simple practices or reflections that help you carry our work into your daily life. These aren’t meant to overwhelm you, but to give you practical steps that make the progress last.
My role is to guide, encourage, and equip you with tools along the way. Your role is to show up as you are — honest, open, and willing to explore, even when it feels messy.
At the end of the day, I want you to know:
My patients matter to me, and I take our work seriously. When I bring care and expertise, and you bring openness and consistency, real change becomes possible.
What we’ll work on
Imagine a life where…
You could feel safe in your own body, calmer in daily life, and more connected to the people who matter most. That change is possible.
Food wasn’t a source of guilt, and your worth wasn’t tied to what you eat or how you look. That kind of peace is possible.
Your emotions felt manageable, your relationships felt safer, and you could trust yourself again. You don’t have to keep living in the same cycles — lasting change is possible.
You no longer believed every harsh thought about yourself — and could finally see your worth without all the shame and self-doubt. That freedom is possible.
Change is possible.
Change is possible.
Questions?
FAQs
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It makes sense to feel discouraged if you’ve already tried things that didn’t seem to help. What’s different here is the way I combine evidence-based approaches like DBT, RO-DBT, Schema Therapy and more to address both your day-to-day struggles and the deeper patterns underneath. I’m certified in DBT through Evergreen and use those skills in a way that fits individual therapy, so it feels practical and personal. Just as important, I focus on building a steady, trusting therapeutic relationship. That kind of trust takes time, but it’s the foundation that allows real and lasting change to happen.
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No — you don’t have to share more than you’re ready for. We’ll go at your pace. Sometimes we’ll focus on skills and coping first, and when you feel safe enough, we can explore the deeper experiences that shaped you.
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I can’t give you a label after one conversation, but I can help you understand your symptoms and whether a BPD diagnosis fits. More importantly, I specialize in working with clients who have BPD traits or a diagnosis, and I’m Evergreen certified in DBT — the therapy model developed specifically for borderline personality disorder. Whether or not you want a formal diagnosis, we’ll focus on the struggles that matter most to you: emotions that feel overwhelming, relationships that feel unstable, and a sense of self that feels shaky.